Helping folks navigate non-monogamy with empathy, honesty, and humanity.

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Evita Sawyer offers coaching for people navigating non-monogamy who want to build relationships rooted in empathy, honesty, and respect for human complexity. Her approach supports clear communication, emotional accountability, and mutual care between partners. Evita helps you create relationships that are not just functional, but deeply humane.

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Who
Is Evita?

Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers is a Black, queer, ethical nonmonogamy coach, speaker, educator and advocate. She is the creator of the social media account Today’s Polyamory Reminder, which has inspired over 50,000 followers. Evita is also the subject of the groundbreaking polyamorous documentary Poly-Love. In her coaching and education, she specializes in navigating the transition from monogamy to nonmonogamy, coping with jealousy and articulating difficult emotions in healthy ways.

Her first book, A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Nonmonogamous, was published by Thornapple Press in 2023.

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