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-Evita
Sharing with Care
In polyamorous relationships, communication is essential—but that doesn’t mean everything has to be shared. Disclosure agreements—decisions about what, how much, and with whom information is shared—can help partners honor both transparency and personal privacy. But navigating these agreements can be complex, especially when needs or boundaries differ between partners and metamours.
This workshop offers a supportive, non-judgmental space to explore the nuances of disclosure in consensually non-monogamous (CNM) dynamics. Whether you're working through how much to share about new connections, navigating metamour relationships, or untangling different communication styles, this session will help you approach disclosure with care, clarity, and mutual respect.
Navigating Disclosure Agreements
ARC: A Compassionate Way to Say No in Polyamorous Relationships
Saying “no” in polyamorous relationships can feel especially fraught—whether you're declining a date, renegotiating a boundary, or expressing a limit that might impact more than one person. Many of us struggle with guilt, fear of hurting others, or the belief that we should always be available if we care. But honoring your own limits is not only okay—it’s essential.
In this workshop, you’ll be introduced to ARC, a practical and compassionate method for saying no in polyamory without abandoning empathy, agency, or connection. ARC offers a simple, repeatable framework to help you express boundaries with clarity, kindness, and relational integrity.
A Skill-Building Workshopreceiving boundaries well
In polyamorous and consensually non-monogamous relationships, boundaries aren't just helpful—they're essential. And while much attention is given to setting clear boundaries, an equally important skill often gets overlooked: how to receive someone else’s boundaries with care, respect, and emotional maturity.
This workshop is designed specifically for people practicing (or exploring) polyamory who want to deepen their capacity to receive boundaries in ways that strengthen connection rather than create distance.
Through open dialogue, guided reflection, and real-world examples from polyamorous relationship structures, we’ll explore what it means to be a safe and trustworthy person to set boundaries with—even when it stings.
A Polyamory Devotional: Working with it
Join me as I read and reflect with some of my favorite excerpts of my book, “A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Non-monogamous”. We will read several passages and answer the reflection questions as a group.